Author Archives: Unlabeled

You may hear these words everyday of your life. You may never believe them. I never did. But to whomever is reading this: You are enough. You are soft, stay that way. You are human, we all make mistakes. You were created for a reason. You are not alone, even if you feel alone. YouContinue reading “A Love Song to Those Who Need to Hear It”

Ever since I was little I have been sensitive.  Not in the way that when people say something to me, it breaks me.  But in the way that when I saw other people hurting, it was the worst pain I could feel.  I always have felt other people’s pain and I never knew why.  SometimesContinue reading “An Empath’s View”

Many times when something is scary we run away.  In a nightmare, our answer is always run.  When we are being chased, we run to shelter.  When we are scared of being alone, we run to someone.  But when our own lives are scary, we cannot run away. Sometimes in life I wish I couldContinue reading “If You Need, I will Follow Where You Lead”

The art of fashion was my first love. I never was a big reader.  I would always just go straight for the fashion magazines/books in book stores.  I am pretty sure Vogue was the first “book” I read from the front to back.  The “book shelf” in my room is really filled with my magazines andContinue reading “Re-Labeling the “Fashionista””

Do you know that saying, “I have loved. I have lost”?  Well, to me, those two things go hand in hand.  Loss is one of the hardest things anyone has to go through in life.  I wish that it didn’t exist, but it does.  This year has been filled with the most and hardest lossesContinue reading “Love and Loss”

I have learned more things than I ever have this year of my life. I learned that music helps everything, you just have to find the right band. That listening to The Beatles heals my lonely times.  That people come and go.  That sadness comes with joy.  That love comes with loss. That sometimes the peopleContinue reading “Little Things I Have Learned”

There are moments in time where I feel that breathing is a difficult task to conquer.  I feel there is a haze over my eyes where I only see bad, no good.  When I ask myself a million questions because I feel that my world is ending.  “Why does this happen? Why don’t I haveContinue reading “Living vs. Surviving”

“It has been one of the greatest and most difficult years of my life.  I learned everything is temporary. Moments. Feelings.  People.  Flowers.  I learned love is about giving.  Everything.  And letting it hurt.  I learned vulnerability is always the right choice because it is easy to be cold in a world that makes itContinue reading “Vulnerability and Its Power”

Thank you.  Thank you for making me find myself.  If you hadn’t forced me out of your lives, I wouldn’t be the strong person I am today.  Thank you for making fun of the way I dressed, it empowered me.  Thank you for never talking to me again, for I might be still stuck inContinue reading “Dear Mean Girls…”